My perspective alone
I am married.
I am a married woman. I have a husband. In some way, this factors into everything I do and every decision I make because it should. We are partners.
There are aspects of my life that have nothing do with him. When I had a job, for instance. But even then he was with me. In my heart and mind. Ok, I never wrote a bug report or technical document with his opinion in mind. But like the ring on my finger, this aspect of my life is always there. Even when I am on my own, doing my own thing, expressing my own views.
And I'm proud of that.
And I respect it.
Comments
Comments closed on older entries, whenever I get around to it, to avoid spam.Good for you. That's what makes a marriage.
Posted by: andy3000 | 26 février 2008 21h56
That's an interesting blog topic!
Being married is weird - it's suddenly like two people become a single unit.
I know my way of thinking has had to adjust hugely, but I think I've turned out better for it!
Posted by: Roland Hulme | 27 février 2008 8h29
You will go far, young Jedi - it's more than a partnership, it's a symbiosis - when it works right, you can't live without the other, and you know it. Glad to see you are very much much aware.
Posted by: Vanwall | 28 février 2008 8h16
You should be doing just that...and be proud of it!
Posted by: Chris | 29 février 2008 10h41