I am married.
I am a married woman. I have a husband. In some way, this factors into everything I do and every decision I make because it should. We are partners.
There are aspects of my life that have nothing do with him. When I had a job, for instance. But even then he was with me. In my heart and mind. Ok, I never wrote a bug report or technical document with his opinion in mind. But like the ring on my finger, this aspect of my life is always there. Even when I am on my own, doing my own thing, expressing my own views.
And I’m proud of that.
And I respect it.
Good for you. That’s what makes a marriage.
That’s an interesting blog topic!
Being married is weird – it’s suddenly like two people become a single unit.
I know my way of thinking has had to adjust hugely, but I think I’ve turned out better for it!
You will go far, young Jedi – it’s more than a partnership, it’s a symbiosis – when it works right, you can’t live without the other, and you know it. Glad to see you are very much much aware.
You should be doing just that…and be proud of it!