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baby elephant walk

i went to the zoo this weekend, with evildeb and baby maggie. and i think i may not be the best person for zoos. or maybe it’s just my mood. but they make me kinda sad. the bunnies in the “family farm” made me downright mad. they just had bunnies in a hutch. and one of them was a grey mini rex, looked a lot like the B. but i don’t understand why the chickens deserve a place to romp and play and be free range, when the bunnies don’t. they just have to sit there, in boxes. for the rest of their lives. i may start a campaign to build a new “rabbit habitat.”
most of the animals were hiding, as is typical whenever i am there. we weren’t there very long, and come to think of it, i saw absolutely zero big cats. and they are my favorite. but i did see the baby elephant, hansa. i have to say, we have a kick ass “elephant habitat,” at our zoo. apparently we love the elephants. just not the bunnies.
but the most shocking events of the weekend had nothing to do with the zoo. i did the weirdest thing. no, i did not go out saturday night. get real. i’m still me. i cleaned. happily, and with malicious intent to accomplish something. i reorganized the desk. which isn’t really cleaning, i like doing that. but vacuumed the house, i cleaned up and organized the cd’s. i took books to the Half Price Books to sell, i did 4 loads of laundry… it kept going on like this. throughout the weekend. it was pretty scary. i think it freaked pru out.
you’d think with that kind of productivity, over the weekend, i’d start monday with a happy and enthusiastic heart. but i’m in a poopy mood. however, at the same time, i’ve already accomplished the few things i had on my checklist. i only put a few things, because since i’ve come back from my time off, i have not been working at my full potential. i’ve been getting about half as much as normal done. maybe i’m back up to my normal speed? i don’t know. i’m still not in a good mood.

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oh that’s what alberta looks like!!

today, on my drive to work, i saw a car that had a map of canada in it’s window. it was an outline map of the northern half of north america, with the provinces mapped out, each in a different color, with it’s name in the middle of it. all areas of land that were not part of canada were transparent. wait, that’s not quite right, the entire northern territory was transparent as well. it took up the entire dirver’s side rear window. and i just thought that was an odd car decal. that’s all. and why didn’t the northern territory deserve a color? i mean, i can see why they might do that to quebec, just for fun, but what’s the northern territory done to deserve transparency?

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less is not more, scientifically, it has been shown to indeed be LESS

in my hororscope in the october issue of Jane magazine, it says “to you, less is not more, it’s less.” and boy is that true. i just had to reitterate that.
i’ve been worrying a lot about money. a whole lot. and shitload of a lot. i really hate money. but not in that, i just want to do without material possessions and be a minimalist way. but in, i want more. i want security and i want the freedom it gives me. freedom to buy toys, freedom to travel, freedom to take care of the ones i love. if that’s shallow, than just don’t lay face down in me, baby. [because it’s been shown that you can drown in 3 inches of water. i think.] i don’t fuckin’ care if it is shallow. for me to pretend to be feel any differently would be a lie. and which is worse, being what some would consider shallow? or a total and complete fake? i think you know my answer.
i don’t think i am a snob. i don’t think that i need more and more stuff to make me feel complete. but you know what? i like to buy shoes!! i like it. it’s FUN! like… it could be considered a hobby, it’s that much fun. the same with books. i could spend hours and hours in bookstores. and happily walk out with a stack of books. and what if i don’t get the chance to read them all? so what? i walk out with a stack full of wonder and possibility. and i can sell them at Half Price Books for someone else to enjoy, if i did not.
you know what else i like? i like buying stuff for people. i like to buy them stuff they wouldn’t buy themselves. because they can’t afford it. or don’t know it exists, but i do. and i know it’s perfect for them. i’d have to say that is my favorite hobby. buying presents for people.
and now i am in a financial pickle. and i can’t do any of those things. and i don’t know when i am going to be able to do them again. not for a long time. and i HATE it. it goes against everything i am. i’m not a frugal person. i don’t clip coupons and i don’t shop sales. [i don’t shop sales because i hate crowds of aggressive shoppers. it’s unpleasant and detracts from the fun. i’d rather shop online.] i don’t want to be this girl i am going to have to be for the next few years. it’s that bad. stupid IRS. but it’s my own fault.
the only thing i can figure out is, i am going to have to find a way to make money on my own. did i mention that we are going to have lay offs between now and the end of the quarter? yeah. we are. hopefully i’ll be fine. but i hate that feeling the entire company has, that worry. i don’t want to be dependent on anyone. and the most independent thing i can come up with, that suits me, is a best selling author. that’s my plan. i’m going to have to be a best selling author. that’s my plan. and maybe i’ll get started tonight. after CSI.

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let’s get these boobies started… part two

you know what, i’m officially tired of discussing my breasts. so let’s just wrap this up short form, ok?
– first 3 days were the worst
– pain was totally managable.
– breasts are swollen and engorged for about a week and a half to two.
– still have nipple sensation. currently hyper sensation.
– it’s hard not using my arms.
– i never felt nauseous.
the single most suprising thing about the whole procedure was the amount of energy it took from me. i figured that if i felt good, i would feel like doing stuff, and going places. not so. it wiped me out and it took a couple of weeks+ to really get back to normal. lots of sleeping. lots.
there. that should do it. i’m happy to talk about it, if you have any questions, let me know. i’ll tell you all you want to know. it’s just not the formost thing on my mind. i just had my month check up. in two weeks i get to wear normal bras and use my arms again. and everything will be as it was. only smaller and perkier. with much much much cuter nipples.

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let’s get these boobies started… part one.

ok. i’ve been meaning to do this for many many days. i feel like i can’t write about anything else in blog until i get this over with. the breast reduction story. so let’s get started. it’s also appropriate since i am sitting here, topless, waiting for the vitamin e gel to absorb before putting my sports bra back on. it’s going to be much shorter than it would have been a week after the fact, since so much has happened since. but maybe that’s a blessing.
the reduction was on the 12th of sept. it was a 4 hour surgery. which is a pretty long surgery, when you think about it. my friend mary had a lumpectomy, in which they removed one tumor and 15 nodes, it only took an hour and a half. and that’s cancer, dude. anyway, i arrived early in the morning and i was surprised at how quickly they got started. i remember going into the o.r., and them telling me that they were giving me the anesthetic, and that it would take about 5 seconds to kick in. i was talking to the nurse, nancy, about my french braids, i remarked that this “felt creepy.” and i was out. next thing i remember, i’m being wheeled through hallways to my room. by this time, it was mid to late afternoon. i don’t know exactly, i was out of it.
now my mom pattie, keeps remarking at how alert i was when i got there. i answered questions and even made wise cracks. but to be honest, i don’t remember it that way. but once i was in bed, i do remember them explaining my best friend to me. the self administered demerol. “the button.” dr. n told me, before the surgery, that i would have no appetite. that maybe i’d manage some ice chips at first, to deal with the thirst. and work my way up to water later that evening. but when the nurse asked me if i wanted water, i said yes. and 20 minutes later i said yes to grape juice.
time is blurry from then on. my mom went to get chapstick for me, because my lips looked dry, and evildeb showed up. she gave me presents from the team, and from her. including a picture of maggie. i’m sure i had some sort of conversation with her. i don’t know. we’ll have to ask her. i know my mom left for a while, probably to go have some dinner with bob. i ended up eating dinner. it was all beige. vanilla pudding, milk shake, applesauce, “pureed soup” of a chicken sort. but i was kicking this procedure’s ass. my biggest concern was that i would feel nauseous. but you know, i never did. kicked it’s ass, i’m telling you. ron [stepdad] was there during dinner. and then my mom came back. and my aunt and uncle. pattie was so sweet, she volunteered to stay and spend the night in the chair, but i was fine.
i’m spending way too much time on the hospital, aren’t i? i’ll tried to speed it up. well, i peed like a champ [they like that sort of thing there], was off the demerol by 2 am, and on to percocet, and had breakfast as well. and left 3 hours ahead of schedule. the whole kicking ass thing again. you don’t sleep a lot, or at least all at once, in a hospital, so i was looking forward to going home.
let’s call that part one, of the recovery story. and continue tomorrow with the next week, at home, tomorrow.

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