books, Satan's Bookclub, Wellness Wheel: Intellectual

First review for Satan’s Bookclub is up!

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My first book review is up at Satan’s Bookclub. I’ve reviewed Frank Portman’s YA novel Andromeda Klein, a book I thoroughly enjoyed. But that’s not what Satan’s Bookclub is about, is it? It’s more important to recognize how potentially evil a book is, rather than the quality of story and writing. You becha!

Bit rusty at the reviews. I only published two the first time SBC was up. But I attempted a few more. I’m looking forward to honing my skills.

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Dear So and So

Dear So and So…

Dear So and So... Dear Canada,

Thank you so much for finally expressing an interest in me. I guarantee you will not regret. I can be very very polite. You’ll see. Ok, so I don’t care that much for hockey, neither does my Canadian husband. You should not hold that against me.

I look forward to working with you,
Jodi


Dear Tiny Cherry Pies,


Yes, I can hear you. Even two blocks away I can hear you calling my name. I’m sorry. I want to date other snacks for a while. Less fattening ones.

You aren’t helping,
Jodi


Dear October
,
I am so happy to see you! You are my favorite month. You have started out with a bang of good news, I hope we can continue on with that trend. Maybe end 2009 on a happy note. It’s been a tough year for some.

Anyhoo, looking forward to my birthday and Halloween,
Jodi


Dear NaNoWriMo
,
Last year, I told you we were through. I have not “won” since 2004. I really don’t need any more reasons to be disappointed in myself. But you are so seductive! You know me too well. You know my not so secret dream of a being a writer, yet my crippling confusion at how to begin a new book. My love of buying a new NaNoWriMo shirt and donating money so my user name has a halo over it.

I’m giving you, and me, one more chance,
Jodi
Join the So and So fun at Kat’s.
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Canada, Immigration, William

A truly thankful Thanksgiving

I just got a call from a nice lady in the immigration offices in Alberta. We’ll call her Jane. Because for some reason, I don’t want to use her real name. She had some questions that Wil and I need to clear up for her, by writing a short paragraph of explaination and faxing it to her. Easy peasy.

Jane is a very nice lady, I think she liked me. She spent several minutes talking to me about my application and what the next steps will be. She told me to go ahead and fax her an application for a work permit! I was thrilled to hear that because months of unemployment for Wil, and years for me, have taken a toll. Of course, I don’t know how helpful it will be in today’s economy. I suppose it depends on what I am willing to do. What I am NOT willing to do is phone support. Neither is Wil, for that matter.

To make matters better, I talked to her about traveling across the border and she told me that I could travel across the border as long as Wil was with me. My application came from within Canada because it is a hardship to be away from my husband. He supports me. This fact makes it risky to cross into the states without him. How much of a hardship could it be if I left the country without him. But if I am with him…

This means as soon as we get Wil’s passport, we will be able to go to the States. And, as long as any working schedules allow, we can go home for American Thanksgiving. I wouldn’t think this would make me cry, but all of the sudden I found myself crying. Wil is not home right now, which is probably for the best, because I am sure he wouldn’t know quite what to do with me in this state.

Someone is processing my application! Soon, I may be able to work! I will, most likely be home for Christmas! ( to quote a famous song)

I do not know how long it will take to get my approval letter. (at that point I take it to the local immigration office and apply for my card.) I am just so thrilled to have this news. These steps to take.

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books, Satan's Bookclub, Wellness Wheel, Wellness Wheel: Intellectual

Do you like books? Satan does. Pssst… this is my Monday Announcement


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I love to read and I do it a lot. I also like to go to readings and book signings, something I used to do more often when I lived in the states.I used to read a lot of book blogs as well. And all of these activities led to creating Satan’s Bookclub with Louise. I created it, did a couple of reviews, but I let it slide. I don’t remember why. Probably met a boy online or something. wink wink.

In the last few months, I’ve been thinking about bringing it back. Suddenly, it was a week before Banned Book Week (the original inspiration for the site) and I jumped in and redesigned it.
With the exception of reading books, I feel that I have ignored the intellectual pie piece of my umm… life pie. I’m not learning anything, or using my brain overly much. That is evidenced by my lackluster blogging, for one. Satan’s Bookclub will, I hope, renew my deeper interest in books and book news, as well as force me to to think and articulate my opinions on the books I read.
In other words, I am going to exercise my brain. If you are unfamiliar with Satan’s Bookclub, you can read it’s history and manifesto here. Please stop on by.

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books

Don’t talk about the books again. You get all… And sometimes there’s drool.

Today marks the beginning of the ALA Banned Book Week. In honor of this, I will have a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT on Monday.

Ok, maybe it’s not that BIG, I don’t know. It could take off and be cool. Or it could whither and die, you never know with me. I don’t want to set you up only to see you disappointed. And, frankly, I don’t need the pressure. It would suck if you were expecting AMAZING and what you got was PRETTY COOL, you know?
Let’s just say there will be a FAIR SIZED ANNOUNCEMENT on Monday and see how it goes from there, ok?
Good. 

 
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Dear So and So…

Dear So and So...



Dear uterus,

Stop it. Just stop it. You know what I am talking about.

Annoyed,
Jodi

Dear allergies,
See above letter to uterus.
Mouth Breathing,
Jodi

Dear Sugar Free Chocolate Pudding In My Fridge,

I’m coming to git you!
Salivating,
Jodi

Dear Canada,

I like you. Do you like me? Let’s be friends! Please… just let me in.. I promise you won’t be sorry.

Living in my home, but not my native land,

Jodi

Dear Thursday Night Season Premieres,

Were you good? Were you exciting? Were you everything I hoped you’d be? I don’t know. I can’t watch you yet because Wm. is having a PS3 Marathon Party with his buddy visiting from the island. I won’t be able to watch you until Sunday.

That goes for you too, Dollhouse.

He’s just lucky he didn’t do this on Monday,
Jodi
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Wellness Wheel, Wellness Wheel: Financial

Due to budget cuts we had to sell the plastic skeleton and replace it with this Halloween costume. Also, the class trip to Italy is now “Spaghetti Night” in the school cafeteria, and your $1500 deposit is non refundable. Goodnight!

Wellness-Wheel-Financial-.png By far, one of my biggest issues to address is my financial situation. I should say our financial situation. We’ve both been unemployed for months. We have no idea when I will be able to work and living on one unemployment check is not easy. So not easy that we are not doing it. We are draining our reserves.

I desperately need to acknowledge the difference between necessity and luxury. I’m bad at that. For years I pretty much bought what I wanted, within reason of course. But if I wanted a book, I bought it. If I wanted a dvd, I bought it. If I wanted a trip to the spa, I went.

I very much want a trip to the spa right now. But I am not going. I cannot say I am as careful with books. DAMN YOU KINDLE FOR THE iPHONE! (and bless you. Books on demand wherever I am? This is the future I always dreamt of)

That is not my only problem, however. In addition to watching unnecessary spending, I need to find a way to be smarter about the money we do need to spend. Primarily, I figure, on food. With that in mind…

Does anyone have a good recommendation for a book about budgeting, for someone who is terrible with money? Something simple?

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Wellness Wheel

Rolling right along.

I mentioned last week that I had a lot of plans in the works. So many, you’d think I was crazy. But it’s all part of one big plan. Well, this is that plan.

The Wellness Wheel.

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Ta-da! Google Wellness Wheel and you’ll find lots of different descriptions, but it all leads to the same idea: a life of balance. I’ve seen wheels with different descriptions in their pie pieces, some say “Career” instead of “Intellectual,” and some only have 6 slices. For me, I went with the one I saw on my alma mater’s website. I prefer the emphasis on my intellect, rather than just my career.

Financial – Accessing the resources and skills that allow you to accomplish your goals

  • Developing skills to manage resources.
  • Planning for future needs.
  • Learning to spend wisely.
  • Living on a budget.

Spiritual – A positive perception of the meaning and purpose of life.

  • Participating in spiritual activities, however you define them.
  • Respecting your individuality and allowing yourself to grow and change.
  • Being open to different cultures, religions and philosophies.
  • Reflecting on your life, perhaps spending time to meditate daily.

Emotional – Possession of a secure self-identity and a positive sense of self-regard; also the ability to cope with and/or improve unpleasant mood states.

  • Keeping a positive attitude.
  • Being sensitive to your feelings and the feels of others.
  • Learning to cope with stress. Being realistic about your expectation.
  • Taking responsibility for your own behavior.
  • Viewing challenges as opportunities rather than obstacles.

Intellectual – Exploring and developing your intellect.

  • Exploring what interests you; opening yourself up to new experiences.
  • Developing active listening skills.
  • Leaning because want to – not because you are told to.
  • Learning through varied experiences and media.
  • Listening; observing what’s around you.
  • Questioning.

Physical – A perception and expectation of physical health.

  • Exercising regularly; living an active life.
  • Developing an awareness of your eating and drinking habits and how they impact your health.
  • Getting regular check-ups.
  • Eating healthy.

SocialParticipating in positive social relationships, including friends, family, community and work groups.

  • Respecting and honoring diversity; developing and understanding and appreciating differences.
  • Contributing your time and energy to activities within your community.
  • Learning to constructively express ideas and opinions.
  • Developing friendships.
  • Budgeting and balancing your time to include both responsibilities and relaxation.
  • Being comfortable with and liking yourself as a person

EnvironmentalDeveloping an awareness of the environment that surrounds you, and enhancing your relationship with it.

  • Finding satisfaction and worth in your working and living environments.
  • Working to ensure the stability and longevity of our natural resources.
  • Ensuring that your work environment and relationships are comfortable.
  • Being aware of your place in the natural environment. 

If you picture your life like a wheel, it will only roll along nicely if each of the seven sections are fulfilled equally. Otherwise your get a bumpy ride, right? Clichéd, but true.

I’m hoping that this approach will help bring focus and structure to my life. And my blog. I’m going to be document my efforts to address each section of the wheel in my life. Failures and successes. I will still write the random crap I’ve always written, don’t worry.

Anyway… I have to go focus on my Environment, it’s a mess.

Resources:

http://www.vanderbilt.edu/wellnesscenter/WellnessWheel.html

https://www.washington.edu/provost/studentlife/healthandwellness/students/wellnesswheel.html

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